lessons in life

 
The Truth Behind Girl World

A review Queen Bess&Wanna Bees By Rosalind Wiseman



Being a good parent is a challenging full-time job,and just when you thought you had it down packed your sweet,benign,carefree little angle becomes a vicious ,smart-mouth &image

obsessed demons. You soon lose her to her “clique”, your unable to reach her because she thinks all the answers to her problems are in teen magazines. She loses intrest in family fun night she would much rather talk on the phone and get all the hot gossip, she no longer likes shopping with you ,you become lame & annoying . Why Is she shutting you out? In Queen bees &Wannabees by Roslind Wiseman readers learn what its like being a teenage girl

nowadays. The struggles of body image ,the social class system and so much more.




Success is a major accomplishment ,its a reward for all the hard work you put into something. You sacrifice so much and once you put the blood sweat and tears into something you being to become obsessed with being successful. While reading Queen bees&Wannabee I learned about the extremes girls go to to reach their goals of being “Miss Congeniality””girls are intimidate or envious of her”(80,Wiseman) ,girls look at each other as the opponent like in art of war “
Maneuvering with an army is advantageous; with an undisciplined multitude, most dangerous. If you set a fully equipped army in march in order to snatch an advantage, the chances are that you will be too late. “ they do whatever it takes to push the next girl down too become number one. My goal in life is to be someone that makes a difference in the world. In Queen bees&wannabees all the girls a striving to be somebody important.


I will be told I cant make a difference and I'm to small to do something amazing happen. “mean girls break down the self esteem of other girls to intermediate them “(94 wiseman). People(the queen bees) will say and do anything to abase someone.




The way Wiseman wrote her book it was more like a handbook with evidence

behind everything she had stated by including things that real girls of different ages had to say about every topic she also had parents to share their hardships of raising a teenage girl. I think that aspect made the book more interesting. Each chapter had a focus points and scenarios

As you progress in each chapter the scenarios become more serious. Some times Wiseman can get circumlocution, her style of writing is realistic and she just calls it like she sees it. When she says “for the girl whose popularity is base on fear and control,think of a combination of the Queen of Hearts in Aice in wonderland call her Queen Bee “ she gives the the name queen bee a rash belligerent meaning .




After I read Queen bees&Wannabees I understood that parents aren’t nagging you just to do it they have good intentions. Parents aren’t prefect but they want to see you be successful and happy. No matter what you do wrong or how loud they yell at you they are doing it all out of love.

I think all parents of teenage girls should read this book because sometimes the forget how much pressure and stressed girls are put under by their peers. I think teenage girls should also read this because it reminds them that parents are trepidation the mistakes they could make and how it could influence their lives. I would read more of her work because she is blunt about everything she writes and she gives the pros and cons to everything. When girls hit girl world there is no turning back and even though your daughter might push you away these are the times she needs you the most. The best way to guide your daughter thought girl world is to let her know you will always be there for her.

 
Queen bees and Wanna bees

by:Rosalind Wiseman




Queen bees and wanna bees is more like a handbook for parents to understand their teenage daughters and understand why they shut them out so much. The author describes different situations that teen girls face and how the girls feel about these situations. So far the book is pretty entertaining because I can relate to some of the topics that the author is talking about. I like how different girls put their stories in the book. The theme in this book is trust because parents should trust that their daughters will do right if if they have given them the right tools and lessons.This book also tells how belligerent girls can be.







 
To love is to be selfless , putting anthers needs&feelings before your own.thinking about how your actions could cost you the  love of your life.
 you swim in a pool of hungry sharks on the daily praying not to get bite  and knowing one gets word back to the one you gave your heart to who will  rip yours to shreds. tears flow from her face and you feel her Aggy and you feel your heart sink into your chest as you realize you turned a good girl into an  attack dog who's trying to bite your head off with every chance she gets . an apology isnt  going to be a perfect fix.  alll the wishful thing and range beomes your new thing punching walls out of trepodation if she will ever return
 
A true beauty she is ,she wear nothing but the latest jet black hair dangling down her spine & MAC eye shadow over her big brown eyes that drown in tears every night.She's just another benevolent little girl who is trapped by her belligerent attitude  that no one will ever get to know.
 

the endless hours she buts into her outfit to make it seem as if she got dress in no time just to occupant her mind from all them painful roomers boys spread  about her spreading her legs.

she spends every dollar she gets on the clothes made of gold trends to shield her heart  from cupids arrows ,saving her self from the pain of heart break  the feeling of alienation is  what she gains
 she drowns in intoxicating scents of expensive perfumes to let her presence be known,she doesn't has the strength to open her mouth she fears her voice will make the entire class laugh.

behind all the glam and the sweet smiles she's just a young girl addictted to retail , killing her fathers's pockets to hide the emotional heartattack shes having inside
 
 She gave her heart to you thinking you would be true,not for you  to break it into two. she prays everyday for your abusive ways to change,god knows she will be happy when they do, if they do.
if you change your ways...before its to late before death comes on her life clock.the acerbity in his voice constantly  crushes her happy fantasy's.
 
she cries in the shower because the hot rushing water on the bruses on her back burns.she wonders why she stays blinded by the riches he has she gambles with the game of life every night when he comes home from flying a long flight .tries to avoid him but he turns it into another fight.

her last chance to make it through the door of freedom she steps out onto the wings of faith .so close she can feel it the liberating feeling rushes through out her bones ,then she come crashin down to the grown with every bone making a crumbling sound ...t The last word she screams echo's through out the halls as the acetic tase of blood fills her mouth & her heart growns to be as slient as a mouse.

Her last tear she has cried  as she spreads her wings and makes her way back to heaven  a fallen angel has rises again

another young material girl lost to the dream of being loved.
 
I come into peoples lives with complete disregard, I impose on your daily life as a lazy relative would. Most wish me away but what they don't know is once i amthere i am there to stay,

Im as powerful as Katrina when she came i can also be as weak as a lilttle rain, i sometimes make inpacts on peoples lifes just to help them realize whats right in front of their eyes.

Sometimes i come in prefect timing ,riqht  when you need me
I Show you what you once couldnt see
im notpyhic but after your friends meet me they wont be the same.

i show youyou that your parents are the ones who will remain the same & moving you away  was the right thing.

if i hadnt came along you would still be lost in a daze and the wisdom you have gained wouldnt be there today. Im not asking for a thank you but only for you to understand even though im bettersweet i can help you change.